How can I get rid of the fake girls on social media that are claiming to be hookups? Is there a way to shuffle through them and the real women that actually want to talk?

Good Luck and keep your head on the swivel!

Now for the really bad news. I understand why you're looking for that special connection with a woman but because so many of what you find are either fakes or scammers, please consider joining a reputable dating site. The most trusted ones are eharmony, Match and Hinge. When you decide which one you'd like to join just pay attention to details on the different profiles. The more details, the better. And you'll be able to choose someone based on your location which is a big plus.

If you start messaging with someone you feel is really what they say they are watch for any inconsistencies in what they've told you about themselves. If someone has two or more different stories they are lying to you.

Why do people believe that global warming is man made?

First thing I suggest is to Google search their pictures. I've used this and have gotten great results, especially if they have used that picture on various social platforms. Alot of the images I've searched that I saw here on QUORA came back to various XXX sites, Instagram, X, etc. Obviously, if you're looking for a girlfriend you don't want to go with someone who has been posting porn, or maybe that's what you're looking for lol.

It's hard, I agree, but there's a few tips that make sorting through the various women a little easier.

If they are hesitant to speak with you on the phone that's a red flag. If they only talk to you late at night, they are probably married. Have they been willing to tell you about the other social platforms they are on and let you look at those? If not, something isn't right.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?